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Posted on 23-NOV-10
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We are a partially nudist family - I'm naked a lot of the time at home, my husband is usually in his shorts and tshirt, my daughter (22) is naked all the time, and my son is very variable in his outlook - sometimes fully naked sometimes fully dressed.
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<br>I was always taught girls should keep their legs together, but I find a lot of photos here of girls with legs apart. My daughter likes to lounge about at home nude with legs wide apart and I'm always telling her it's not appropriate esp in front of other family members. She tells me it's just her way of relaxing and that I'm behind the times. What do others think?
 
BigD15 Posted on 23-NOV-10
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if she is nude, she should do whatever is comfortable and natural. A female keeping her legs together when wearing a skirt or dress is to maintain modesty, which in a nude environment does not apply.
 
Andidandi Posted on 23-NOV-10
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I don't know about you or your daughter but if I am not aroused all you can see is the mound and outline of the slit. If I haven't removed the hair in a while then its all hair you see. So as BigD15 said, it is about modesty and being nude is about being proud of your own body and free, so let her keep her legs open without the etiquette reminders from clothed society.
 
NudeRichard Posted on 23-NOV-10
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Our daughter grew up going nude with us. We use to go to resorts but her mom and she got a little more shy about public nudity when they go their present jobs. So now our nudity is confined mostly to the house. Our daugther sits around the house nude a lot, and often her legs are apart. She does what her mother and I call twiddleing her twat. She will let her hand lay over hrself and let a finger or her entire hand run up nad down her twat area as she reads or watches TV. If has gone on most all her life so we think nothing of it. As for having her legs apart, let it be, like the others have indicated that comes mostly from the clothed society for modesty.
 
born_nude Posted on 23-NOV-10
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Well, it's your house, so people should go by your rules, whether it's guests of children.
<br>Personally it wouldn't bother me, but if you don't like it, she should respect your wishes
 
PietjePek Posted on 23-NOV-10
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my parents teached my sis and me: always show your pussy, always show your dick...
 
elaine555 Posted on 23-NOV-10
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Yes, I know it's my house and my rules, but I really don't have any rules regarding nudity in the house. Whatever people are comfortable with. I just don't want my son to get inappropriate thoughts when he sees his sister legs spread. But like someone pointed out, you really can't see much except a slit even though she is smooth shaven.
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<br>Both my daughter and I are completely smooth, the men keep it very short trimmed. I guess that is one rule I have, I don't like bushy.
 
Bushwhacker Posted on 24-NOV-10
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As an official grumpy old man who earns his living travelling extensively by air and having to sit for hours upon my encumbered boys, I have only one thing to say,....
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<br>...... "when the opprotunity exists, let Kitty breathe."
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<br>It may be about unrivalled comfort. It might be about exhibitionism. Whether either, or a combo of both, it feels good.
 
elaine555 Posted on 24-NOV-10
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Are you serious? How old is your daughter? My son used to constantly play with his penis in front of family during his preteen years, but is more private now. I know they both masturbate in their rooms, and they also have bf/gf they have sex with. They are both adults now.
 
elaine555 Posted on 24-NOV-10
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<br>Bushwhacker write:
<br>As an official grumpy old man who earns his living travelling extensively by air and having to sit for hours upon my encumbered boys, I have only one thing to say,....
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<br>...... "when the opprotunity exists, let Kitty breathe."
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<br>It may be about unrivalled comfort. It might be about exhibitionism. Whether either, or a combo of both, it feels good.
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<br>My previous comment was for luv2bnude49.
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<br>Bushwhacker, this is exactly my daughter's attitude! At work she is required to wear formal suit, hose and heels, and sit primly taking notes for stuffy executives. When she comes home, she totally lets loose.
 
NudeRichard Posted on 24-NOV-10
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Our daughter is 27 now and yes she still does this when sitting around reading or watching TV just relaxing nude. It is not like she is really masturbating, but she is touching herself and rubbing herself seems like all the time. I am sure she masturbates in her room as well, but when she is in the family room she is more often than not twiddleing herslef.
 
born_nude Posted on 24-NOV-10
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<br>Yes, I know it's my house and my rules, but I really don't have any rules regarding nudity in the house. Whatever people are comfortable with. I just don't want my son to get inappropriate thoughts when he sees his sister legs spread. But like someone pointed out, you really can't see much except a slit even though she is smooth shaven.
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<br><br>Both my daughter and I are completely smooth, the men keep it very short trimmed. I guess that is one rule I have, I don't like bushy.
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<br>Well, if you and your family are ok with it, then I wouldn't worry about what others think. Especially since you're all adults.
 
Bushwhacker Posted on 25-NOV-10
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<br>elaine555 write:
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<br><br>Bushwhacker write:
<br><br>As an official grumpy old man who earns his living travelling extensively by air and having to sit for hours upon my encumbered boys, I have only one thing to say,....
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<br><br>...... "when the opprotunity exists, let Kitty breathe."
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<br><br>It may be about unrivalled comfort. It might be about exhibitionism. Whether either, or a combo of both, it feels good.
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<br><br>My previous comment was for luv2bnude49.
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<br><br>Bushwhacker, this is exactly my daughter's attitude! At work she is required to wear formal suit, hose and heels, and sit primly taking notes for stuffy executives. When she comes home, she totally lets loose.
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<br>I'm quite familiar with her sentiments. My job requires me to don 3 layers of protective clothing, & at times a pla...
 
justme2009 Posted on 25-NOV-10
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I am being very serious stating this so listen up. I really think with your daughter sitting with her legs open is basically a sexual turn on/release for her. I believe you said she wears skirts/suits and such at work. Her sitting like that at home is just her way of "letting her hair down" and kicking back after a hard work day. I'm willing to bet you when she visits the lady's room at work she is "frigging" herself to a frenzy and can't wait to get home to really finish the job. As long as she knows where here priorities are I'm sure she is quite well adjusted. I must admit I became a bit aroused when I read your posts. Maybe you could post some more about it?
 
Txhotgirl Posted on 26-NOV-10
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I suppose I am not modest at home, but at home I am relaxed and secure knowing whatever I do is ok! I don't really pay attention if my legs are together or open. just me tho.
 
dancer Posted on 26-NOV-10
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<br>I am being very serious stating this so listen up. I really think with your daughter sitting with her legs open is basically a sexual turn on/release for her. I believe you said she wears skirts/suits and such at work. Her sitting like that at home is just her way of "letting her hair down" and kicking back after a hard work day. I'm willing to bet you when she visits the lady's room at work she is "frigging" herself to a frenzy and can't wait to get home to really finish the job. As long as she knows where here priorities are I'm sure she is quite well adjusted. I must admit I became a bit aroused when I read your posts. Maybe you could post some more about it?
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<br>The same is true of mothers who teaches their daughters to dress provacatiely, to tease.
 
elaine555 Posted on 26-NOV-10
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<br>Txhotgirl write:
<br>I suppose I am not modest at home, but at home I am relaxed and secure knowing whatever I do is ok! I don't really pay attention if my legs are together or open. just me tho.
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<br>Thanks for the comment. I was looking for some female perspectives. The rest of us are nudist only within the family, but my daugher has quite a few friends from college she is nude with. My daughter is a very touchy feely person and often gives full body hugs in the nude. I didn't want people mistaking her gestures. I don't know if body contact between two nude people is acceptable in general, but I enjoy it when she comes up behind me in the kitchen and hugs me close from behind. She is pretty uninhibited in her behavior.
 
nakedrhode Posted on 26-NOV-10
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I dont see a problem she is obviously pretty comfortable with her own nudity and body image so good for her, dont make more of it than it is let her be.
 
elaine555 Posted on 26-NOV-10
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I posted my initial message because I saw a lot of women pictures here with legs apart and thought I could get some insight from other nudist women on the issue of my daugher. But so far I haven't got many women responses. I'm interested in talking about issues with my kids (esp my totally uninhibited daughter) to other nudist moms and get their opinions. So far I have several friend requests from men but none from women.
<br>I am sorry if this sounds rude to the men here but I don't mean to be rude. It's just that I only want women friends here to share my issues with so I can benefit from their experiences. Hope the men here understand..
 
Andidandi Posted on 26-NOV-10
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<br>I posted my initial message because I saw a lot of women pictures here with legs apart and thought I could get some insight from other nudist women on the issue of my daugher. But so far I haven't got many women responses. I'm interested in talking about issues with my kids (esp my totally uninhibited daughter) to other nudist moms and get their opinions. So far I have several friend requests from men but none from women.
<br>I am sorry if this sounds rude to the men here but I don't mean to be rude. It's just that I only want women friends here to share my issues with so I can benefit from their experiences. Hope the men here understand..
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<br>I am pretty sure I sent you a friend request too. Doing it again just to be sure.
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